He mea leʻaleʻa ka ʻae ʻana i nā keiki e hana i kā lākou mau mea pāʻani ponoʻī?

Inā lawe ʻoe i kāu keiki i kahi hale kūʻai mea pāʻani, e loaʻa iā ʻoeke ʻano o nā mea pāʻanihe mea nani.He mau haneli onā mea pāʻani iʻa a me nā lāʻauhiki ke hana ʻia i mea pāʻani ʻauʻau.Malia paha e ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki i nā ʻano mea pāʻani ke hoʻomāʻona i nā keiki.No ka mea, aia nā ʻano manaʻo ʻē aʻe i loko o ka noʻonoʻo o nā keiki, ʻaʻole lākou e paʻanā ʻano mea pāʻani e kū nei.Inā hoʻolohe ʻoe iā lākou, e ʻike ʻoe hiki i kēlā me kēia keiki ke lilo i mea hoʻolālā pāʻani.

ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, pono nā mākua e kākoʻo piha i kā lākou mau keiki i ka hana ʻana i nā mea pāʻani me lākou iho i hiki ke hoʻohana pono ʻia ko lākou noʻonoʻo.ʻAʻole hiki i kēia ke hoʻoikaika i nā lima lima o nā keiki, akā e hoʻomaopopo pū iā lākou hiki iā lākou ke hana i kahi mea kūʻokoʻa i ka honua a ʻike i ka nani o ka hana.Nui nā keiki e hoʻolei i nā mea pāʻani ma ka home e hōʻike maoli ana ʻaʻole makemake nā keiki iā lākou no ka mea ʻike lākou hiki ke kūʻai ʻia kēia mau mea pāʻani me ke kālā.Akā inā ʻo ia ka mea pāʻani i hana ʻia e lākou iho, e mahalo nui nā keiki iā ia, no ka mea, ʻo ia ka hopena o kā lākou mea hana.

Pehea e paipai ai i nā keiki e hana?

Pono nā mākua e hoʻomau i ka manaʻo hoʻomanawanui inā makemake lākou i kā lākou mau keiki e hōʻike manuahi i ko lākou mau manaʻo a me nā manaʻo.No nā keiki, ʻoiaihe ʻāpana pepa kalaʻo ka peʻe kekee kā lākou hana, no laila, ʻaʻole pono i nā mākua ke manaʻo he hana pilikia lākou.Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole hiki i nā mākua ke ʻae loa i kā lākou mau keiki e hoʻopau i nā hana ma ke kaʻawale.ʻAʻole hiki i nā keiki ma lalo o ʻelima mau makahiki ke hana kūʻokoʻa i nā hana e pono ai nā hana paʻakikī.No laila, pono nā mākua ma kahi kokoke.

Ma hope o ka pau ʻana o ka hana a nā keiki, ʻaʻole pono nā mākua e hoʻomaikaʻi i ka mākaukau lima o nā keiki, akā e ʻimi pū i ke ʻano pāʻani o kēia mea pāʻani me nā keiki.ʻO ia hoʻi, ke kumu hope loa onā keiki e hana ana i nā mea pāʻanino ka pāʻani.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, makemake nā keiki i ka mea hou a makemake ʻole i ka mea kahiko, no laila ʻaʻole hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻomau iā lākou e hana hou i kahi hana.I mea e hoʻololi ai i nā ʻano o nā keiki ulu, hiki i nā mākua ke hāʻawi kūpono i kekahimea pāʻani waiwaia hāʻawi i nā ʻōlelo kuhikuhi maʻalahi e pili ana i ke kaʻina hana.

E noʻonoʻo ana nā mākua he pono lākou e hele i ka hale kūʻai maka e kūʻai i kekahinā mea hana no ka hana ʻana i nā mea pāʻani?Inā ʻoe e nānā pono, e ʻike ʻoe hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia ka pepa ʻōpala no ka pelu ʻana i nā ʻano like ʻole.Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi mau mea keunā poloka lāʻau maʻemaʻei loko o kou home, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻae i kāu mau keiki e pena ma luna o lākou, a laila e hana i kekahinā mea pāʻani cube lāʻau waihoʻoluʻu or nā poloka leka lāʻau.

ʻO ka mea maʻamau, ʻaʻole pono nā mākua e hoʻolako i nā keikika nui kūpono o nā mea pāʻani hoʻonaʻauaoe hoʻoikaika i ka ulu ʻana o ko lākou lolo, akā pono nō hoʻi e ʻae i nā keiki e aʻo e ulu i ka pae kūpono.Inā makemake ʻoe e leʻaleʻa nā keiki ma o ka pāʻani a me ka hana ʻana, e ʻoluʻolu e nānā i kā mākou pūnaewele.ʻO kā mākou huimea pāʻani hoʻonaʻauao lāʻauʻAʻole hiki ke ʻae wale i nā keiki e pāʻani pololei, akā hoʻomaikaʻi pū i ko lākou noʻonoʻo e hana i ka waiwai hou.