Urashobora kumva kenshi ababyeyi bamwe binubira ko abana babo bahora bagerageza kubona ibikinisho byabandi bana, kuko batekereza ko ibikinisho byabandi ari byiza cyane, nubwo babifiteubwoko bumwe bwibikinisho.Ikirushijeho kuba kibi, abana b'iki gihe ntibashobora gusobanukirwa n'ababyeyi babo.Bararira gusa.Ababyeyi bafite impungenge nyinshi.Hariho byinshiamazu y'ibipupe, Uruhare rwo gukinisha, ibikinisho byo kogan'ibindi.Kuki bashaka ibikinisho byabandi cyane?
Abana bakunda gukinisha ibikinisho byabandi sibyo kuko bakunda kunyaga ibintu byabandi, ariko kuberako abana muriki kigero bafite amatsiko yo hanze.Ibyo bikinisho murugo bikunze kugaragara mumaso yabo, kandi mubisanzwe bazagira umunaniro mwiza.Nibamara kubona ibikinisho mumaboko yabandi, nubwo ibyo bikinisho bidashimishije byanze bikunze, bazabishaka bashaka kubona amabara mashya hamwe nubunararibonye.Byongeye kandi, abana bo muri iki kigero barikunda, bityo ababyeyi ntibagomba guhangayikishwa cyane niyi myitwarire yabana babo, mugihe bababujije mu buryo bushyize mu gaciro.
None, nigute wabwira umwana kutanyaga ibikinisho byabandi nubushobozi bwe buke bwo kumenya?Mbere ya byose, ugomba kumwumvisha ko iki gikinisho atari icye.Akeneye kubona abandi bantu uruhushya rwo kubikoresha.Niba abandi bana badashaka kumuha ibikinisho, noneho andi mashusho arashobora gukoreshwa muburyo bukwiye kugirango akwegere ibitekerezo bye.Kurugero, urashobora kumubaza niba ashaka gukina karuseli cyangwa kumuvana ahabereye.Muri iki gihe, ababyeyi bagomba kugenzura amarangamutima yabo kandi bakiga gutuza abana babo barira.
Byongeye kandi, ababyeyi nabo barashobora kubitegura hakiri kare.Kurugero, urashobora kuzanaibikinisho bikekuva murugo, kubera ko abandi bana nabo bazashimishwa nibi bikinisho, urashobora rero kwibutsa umwana wawe kurinda ibyo bikinisho, kandi azibagirwa byigihe gito ibikinisho byabandi kandi yibande kubikinisho bye.
Hanyuma, ababyeyi bagomba kureka abana babo biga kuza mbere hanyuma bakaza.Abana mu mashuri y'incuke bagomba guhatanira ibikinisho.Niba abana babishakagukina n'ibikinishoahantu hahurira abantu benshi, ababyeyi bagomba kwigisha abana babo gutegereza no gutonda umurongo kuri gahunda.Ahari abana ntibashobora kumva inzira nziza icyarimwe.Ababyeyi bagomba gutanga urugero muri iki gihe.Mureke yigane buhoro buhoro kandi ahinduke igice cyo guhanahana uburambe.Muri iki gikorwa, abana baziga buhoro buhoro ubuhanga bwo kuvuga no gutumanaho, kandi banonosore imyitwarire yabo mibi.
Niba uburyo bwavuzwe haruguru bugufasha, nyamuneka bwohereze kubantu benshi bakeneye ubufasha.Muri icyo gihe, ibikinisho byose byakozwe na sosiyete yacu bihuye n’ibipimo by’umusaruro kandi byarageragejwe cyane.Turemeza ko tuzaguha ibicuruzwa na serivisi nziza.Nyamuneka sura urubuga
Igihe cyo kohereza: Nyakanga-21-2021